This hub is for guys and girls but since I'm a guy I'll write it from the male perspective (everything applies to both sexes)
If you like this hub check out the other Passion hubs that will take you deeper down the rabbit hole of love..
Table of Contents of Love topics decoded:
Definition of True Love, The Science of Passion, Intoxicating Kisses(your here now), Decoding Hickeys and cures, Decoding Loneliness, Decode Jealousy, Tribute to Love, Ride through the orgasms of love, Love thought potion, love yourself first then loving anyone else is easy, I see a future in us (song I wrote about love More coming every day!
Decoding Love in all its parts, passion, loneliness, intoxicating kisses, jealousy, and more.. Can be found in these links.. The science of Passion is a very popular one so if you like this one that one is the one I'd recommend you try next.. I'm creating a matrix of love (Decoding Love) but trying to keep each section of the puzzle short and sweet but impactful...
Definition of True Love, The Science of Passion, Intoxicating Kisses(your here now), Decoding Hickeys and cures, Decoding Loneliness, Decode Jealousy, Tribute to Love, Ride through the orgasms of love, Love thought potion, love yourself first then loving anyone else is easy, I see a future in us (song I wrote about love More coming every day!
Decoding Love in all its parts, passion, loneliness, intoxicating kisses, jealousy, and more.. Can be found in these links.. The science of Passion is a very popular one so if you like this one that one is the one I'd recommend you try next.. I'm creating a matrix of love (Decoding Love) but trying to keep each section of the puzzle short and sweet but impactful...
Kissing is more than just a physical act
Kissing is an expression of love and admiration. When you really enjoy someone so much that just looking at them makes your eyes soft, sometimes water up as the emotions of gratitude that their in your life, the kiss becomes an expression of that emotion.
An important component of a good kiss is in the language of the eyes. Most people think you're supposed to close your eyes the whole time you kiss someone but this is not true, nor a good idea. Their is a lot of information transferred in the eyes especially during a really passionate kiss. When times do call for you to close your eyes its usually so you can feel them more on another plane while you experience the endorphin and dopamine rush your brain is flooding your body with. A kiss makes you high.
I used to open my eyes as I pulled away and then keep the stare into her eyes as I absorbed the way she stared back, watched where her eyes went and how they glossed over. All of these things add to the passion of the kiss, and if she keeps looking at your lips then that's a good sign that you're pleasing her and she wants more.
An important component of a good kiss is in the language of the eyes. Most people think you're supposed to close your eyes the whole time you kiss someone but this is not true, nor a good idea. Their is a lot of information transferred in the eyes especially during a really passionate kiss. When times do call for you to close your eyes its usually so you can feel them more on another plane while you experience the endorphin and dopamine rush your brain is flooding your body with. A kiss makes you high.
I used to open my eyes as I pulled away and then keep the stare into her eyes as I absorbed the way she stared back, watched where her eyes went and how they glossed over. All of these things add to the passion of the kiss, and if she keeps looking at your lips then that's a good sign that you're pleasing her and she wants more.
Eye contact is a powerful Pheromone stimulator!
Show her how much you love her taste by indulging in every sensation with your tongue and lips
When you lose eye contact after a minute make sure you come back to it to show her it’s your loving not her body only
This video shows exactly what this hub describes
How to initiate a very sexy kiss
Kiss very slow, practically in slow motion, as if you weren't sure what her lips were, or as if you knew the second your lips touched hers you'd hit orgasm, so you have to take it slow to make it last..
Lead her into the kiss with some sensory teasing.
Tell her to close her eyes and using the tip of your tongue trace her lips all the way around, she will want a full on lip kiss to indulge her craving.. Don't give it to her (even if YOU want it)..
Just do it then stop and watch her eyes slowly come open and smile at her teasingly. This opens the channel for silent communication that happens mostly in the eyes and face. Make yourself look valuable to her, make her feel like she has to show patience to get what you have for her, she'll appreciate the work you make her go through (the patience she has to endure) then give her a very gentle tap kiss (just the borders of your lips touch no pressure just a "touch") to tease her again and pull away then put both of your hands on the sides of her cheek and run your fingers up through and past her ears and through her hair (and watch her eyes roll to the back of her head)
Then brush her cheeks with your thumbs and slowly come in for the kiss.. if her eyes are closed stop and stare at her closed eyelids until they come open, then smile and come in slowly, but close your eyes slowly as you come in (psychologically this makes her think the kiss is coming full force this time)..
Still gentle tap then move side to side (again teasing her) then open your lips and taste her top (or bottom) lip and lick it with your tongue...
When you do all this make sure your lips are completely relaxed, the softness of your lips is what will ultimately make it feel sexy and passionate!
Lead into to a real kiss (see video above) and spend a lot of time playing the lick kiss, taste game with her. Change it up a lot, give it variety. Most guys kiss a girl in one way and barely change it up, and this causes her to become bored or at the very least to remember the last guy who kissed her this way and could end up associating this kiss to a poor kiss in her past. Your kiss is also your trademark. You want every kiss she has with you to reek of YOU, so she remembers it.
It's like that kiss on Spiderman the movie, where she asked peter later to turn upside down and kiss her; she remembered it because of how it felt and the uniqueness of it.
Lead her into the kiss with some sensory teasing.
Tell her to close her eyes and using the tip of your tongue trace her lips all the way around, she will want a full on lip kiss to indulge her craving.. Don't give it to her (even if YOU want it)..
Just do it then stop and watch her eyes slowly come open and smile at her teasingly. This opens the channel for silent communication that happens mostly in the eyes and face. Make yourself look valuable to her, make her feel like she has to show patience to get what you have for her, she'll appreciate the work you make her go through (the patience she has to endure) then give her a very gentle tap kiss (just the borders of your lips touch no pressure just a "touch") to tease her again and pull away then put both of your hands on the sides of her cheek and run your fingers up through and past her ears and through her hair (and watch her eyes roll to the back of her head)
Then brush her cheeks with your thumbs and slowly come in for the kiss.. if her eyes are closed stop and stare at her closed eyelids until they come open, then smile and come in slowly, but close your eyes slowly as you come in (psychologically this makes her think the kiss is coming full force this time)..
Still gentle tap then move side to side (again teasing her) then open your lips and taste her top (or bottom) lip and lick it with your tongue...
When you do all this make sure your lips are completely relaxed, the softness of your lips is what will ultimately make it feel sexy and passionate!
Lead into to a real kiss (see video above) and spend a lot of time playing the lick kiss, taste game with her. Change it up a lot, give it variety. Most guys kiss a girl in one way and barely change it up, and this causes her to become bored or at the very least to remember the last guy who kissed her this way and could end up associating this kiss to a poor kiss in her past. Your kiss is also your trademark. You want every kiss she has with you to reek of YOU, so she remembers it.
It's like that kiss on Spiderman the movie, where she asked peter later to turn upside down and kiss her; she remembered it because of how it felt and the uniqueness of it.
Do little things to show her the romantic inside you
Some ideas (things I do):
- Kiss the corners of her lips after a kiss, come back and kiss her closed lips in the middle, then kiss the corners of her mouth by putting your lips on top and bottom of it and nibble kiss with your lips and brush the top surface of the tip of your tongue on it too. Flatten your tongue flush with your bottom lip and when you kiss her lip use your tongue to stimulate the kiss (its warm and textured and she can feel it)
- butterfly kisses: Kiss her cheek then sneak your head into a position where your eyelashes will brush across her cheek near her nose and tickle her (she will love it)
- Kiss and nibble her chin like your sucking on the top of her breasts (this is what visual it may give her) its a sensual thing most guys don't do so it feels fresh and exciting, especially if she has a little cleft chin (most women with these don't like them and when you kiss her like this she feels better about it, because she assumes you think her chin is sexy.. truth is its not ugly, I've known a lot of gorgeous women with cliff chins that look natural, not like john Travolta *smile*)
- Suck on her tongue (not hard just softly). Take it in your mouth after a French kiss (if she doesn't get the clue tell her to give you her tongue, don't say stick it out, say gimme, and stare into her mouth like you anticipate it, then when you get it in your mouth use the surface area of your tongue as its textured to brush slowly up and down the shaft of her tongue. You will notice (try this) that if you rub the top of your tongue its not that sensitive to the touch but the bottom is much more sensitive, this feels both warm and exciting to her ("licking the bottom of her tongue)
- While kissing do a top gun technique, turn your tongue so the top of yours (surface area) is rubbing across the top of hers. You can even lick the top of hers backwards (like you'd lick a Popsicle only in her mouth.
- The ears are very sensitive to kisses and warmth, nibble on the earlobes and work up to the top of her ears, not using your tongue run your top lip across the back of her ear and the bottom lip on the front, then alternate to licking the inside rim of her ear with the tip of your tongue.. Work your way back down to her neck. Most women have an erogenous zone between the neck and shoulder closer to the back of her neck, nibble here with your teeth then kiss it rubbing your tongue across the skin just before pulling back (this gets it wet) then from deep inside your lungs pull hot air and blow ONLY hot air on that spot (she will shiver) then give it a second and blow cold air there, and almost immediately kiss her there again (same as before). The sensation of hot and cold will put a tingle down her spine.
This hub will be updated as I remember more tips to add
For your viewing pleasure I've scoured out some of the best videos on kissing, some are how to's that really drive the information in this hub home with actual examples, others show you the body language that leads to a kiss.
If you have anything you'd like to add I'd love to hear it in the comments box below, just explain it out and I'll add it to this hub when I see it. Happy Kissing, don't forget to check out my other hubs on passion!
A great hub I found on how to kiss a woman is here:
How to kiss Your Girlfriend
If you have anything you'd like to add I'd love to hear it in the comments box below, just explain it out and I'll add it to this hub when I see it. Happy Kissing, don't forget to check out my other hubs on passion!
A great hub I found on how to kiss a woman is here:
How to kiss Your Girlfriend
DONT DO's (If you have something to add to this list please leave it in the comment box below this paragraph)
Do not:
- Try to shove your tongue down her throat
- kiss her hard right away no matter how passionate you feel a woman likes patience and passion but slow and steady wins the race
- Bite her lip too hard!!!
- Move fast at first.
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